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Why I never celebrated Kaamatan

When I was 12, I was made to join the Kaamatan beauty pageant in my village. My mother, who was one of the organisers, convinced me to participate. I remember her sitting one night, carefully sewing the winner’s sash. It was supposed to be a festive occasion. That same night, everything changed. My father came…

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On Farewell

I often wonder if I’ve made enough friends and been kind enough to my family that they’d want to attend my funeral when I’m gone.

My Ben

I worry about my son constantly. Is it time to loosen my grip and let him soar?